So sad to see you go.... = (

Ron and I stopped by the home of my sister to say goodbye to Faith, Ray and little baby Konner.

I was sad to hear how my niece felt of her stay. I wish her well in VA, where she says she would
rather be.

All I ask is please change your mind and come back to live one day for your mother's relationship with Konner. I am sure Ray's family would also be pleased. It is majical to be around the babies and well you kids live in your own agenda, we just like to see them, visit with them - not necessarily rear them (Heck NO) that is your job and we had our chance to raise kids when we raised our own.

Too bad no owner operator manuals are handed out, sure would have made it nice. When family breaks down and feelings are destroyed there is no turning back.

When you said "It is crappy here because my friends are just like my family, all they do is sit around a talk about other people" now come on, is that not what 90% of people do, check your ownself if you don't believe me. Here is a test, if you think a girl in a grocery store is cute and suddenly you don't like her because she has on a type of clothing you don't like (or in secret you really do "this is to covet") and you are with a friend or your hubby for example: you lean in and whisper, "what do you think of that girl over there"? are you really wanting thier opinion or are you checking to see if they think the same way as you? no matter you inquired - does this make you a gossip? Let's take it one step dumber but the same idea.

A truck rolls up next to you at a light, you notice they have say 2 children in back and neither are belted do you feel bad for the kids and mad at the adults? or do you just look away and don't give a crap? If you say one thing to your partner like: damn what stupid people, haven't you just got up in someone's business you don't even know? All I am saying is it is so easy to do because - it is called LIFE> and it happens. You cannot control everything. One must let go! If you worry about it all it will destroy your very inner core.

Keep on keeping on and we too shall see each other again.

Until then,,,,, I will miss you all!

Love, Aunt Secret

p.s. Thanks Ray for sharing your little family with us this Easter -